To someone who is finding her avenue for happiness:

You're right that you can find your own avenue towards "happiness" or forgetting the past.
However, the god will make us pay for whatever we've done.
Can you afford to pay double? tripple? or don't know how many times of whatever we've done?
I do agree. Why can guys do those things and why can't we?
To get the fair that we think we should have, we pull down ourselves, neglect all the pride and policy that we try to protect in the past.
But, my dear, when you try to do things that you think can make you happy,
pls be sure and very clear in your mind,
DON'T ever try things that actually doesn't benefit you at all.
DON'T end up actually it's benefitting those bustard.

If you want to proof that you can be happy up there without his exists,
you should proof that you can be having fun and live your life in much more value.
Add value to yourself, bring up the class & standard of yourself.
Kick away those despicable idiot.
Live up your own life.